Observe & Analyse !

Today I am about to pen down experiences which we all must have encountered in one way or the other during this journey called life. Certainly when we look down the memory lane, sometimes need is felt to edit those happenings or the way we had dealt a particular incident !.. Thoughts in your mind might be as I said or even the thoughts of not being able to be the person which you once lived in your mind do creep in.  Lots and lots of thoughts are coming floating tossing and vanishing, creating the ripples in our own minds..why... Sometimes a family member is late in reaching home, may be from market, and again thoughts mostly negative do creep in, why ? Sometimes you are trying to focus on a problem & are not getting a proper solution ! This worsens when you yourself are the only person who is guiding your own self. Who is guiding you ? your own wisdom, your own intellect, suppose there are two or three ways of dealing a particular situation, you choose one way but yes t...

Lot of unpleasant incidents pertaining to low self-esteem, low confidence, mistrust and corresponding happenings of crime, leaving parents in old age homes, eve teasing, theft, adultery   etc. etc. are being observed and reported from different parts of world.   These all incidents and happenings clearly indicate that the upbringing of the person who did the crime or had been a victim of low self-esteem, low confidence etc was not proper. Those people who do these sorts of crime or indulge in such activities are also a part of our society and are someone who is known to us, among us. What is it that firms our roots and doesn’t let us get flown away in flood of bad times and distress? These are our moral values, the way we have been grown up, the thoughts and the character which has been inculcated in us. Why is Socrates great? Why is Vivekananda great? Why is APJ Abdul Kalam great? Certainly for the tasks they did in their respective   fields but yeah one thing...

When I talk of happiness, images of toddlers, small kids flash to my mind. The smile and energy kids are bestowed with do teach us a lot, volumes of intellect can be learned if we observe their innocence. Every grown up adult today was once a kid!  Our basic nature is to be happy and cheerful. Play with a kid and discover the infinite ways to be happy, discover the infinite zeal to achieve something. Discover to let go pain of a knee injury on the sight of a smile. Discover the perseverance to play, to go to market or a garden each day! Discover the life… This behavior in itself amuses me as well as makes me think deep inside. When does this small kid diminish in us and turns in a mature person? When do we realize that it’s not worth to play, it’s not worth to always speak truth, it’s not worth to always give a smile to strangers !.. In this worth not to process we process ourselves as grown up individuals and capable people to lead life. We as grown up individuals have ...

From the primitive times, ambitious people who wanted to rule had set boundaries in their imagination first which was then translated on the crust of earth. As the greed for these boundaries began more and more acute, human blood was used to draw them again and again. Brutality, cruelty and mass exodus of various communities took place at various places to find shelter at safer havens in this process. As the world progressed towards modernization, these boundaries were more recognized on the maps and internationally too. Gone are the days when warriors used to fight with sword in one hand and halter in the other. Now as more advancement has taken place modern techniques and technology is being used in wars to protect and to strengthen these drawn boundaries. In the process of defending borders it is none but the mankind that suffers, Brotherhood dies, motherhood ruptures, humanity takes a backseat and all this happens because the sense which Mother Nature gave us gets overwhelmed by ...

Is it always necessary that love is dependent on words to get expressed. Certainly not ! It is a language expressed by heart & understood by heart. Does't need words to hear or speak; touch to happen or feel..Its far more serene and special ..It all needs a wonderful heart & a wonderful companion who is able to hear you even in your silence..Feel you even in your absence ! Meri Khamoshi ko tu suna kar..Teri Khamoshi ko mai Sunuga.. Zuban se nikle agar na lafz to kya..bayane dil khamoshi ki zuban se hoga ! Kailash Raina

Often it happens challenges of life snatch the innocence from our faces ! This happens in a subtle manner so the change goes undetected and when we look back the path, we discover ah.. ! I was a completely different man, an individual.. These changes and experiences make us more prepared to lead a life which is a necessity when we look around our immediate world. We need to adapt to the outside world and these changes are bound to happen. Gradually we forget to cheer for those things which once gave us pleasure to look at -- A sunny Day in winter! .. Birds chirping in field !.. Morning Sunshine..! Cool breeze in evening!...Silently lying in open sky at night and gazing at stars !...All these things are lost somewhere...where? we don't know.. so these lines .... Khauf Kha ae Zindgi aazmane se mujhe  Kahi mai Bhool na javu tujhe jiya karte hai Kailash Raina

Life is nothing but a mixture of joy and sorrows...deep temptations as well as renunciation at times..If there are Ups there are Downs as well...There may be huge applause at times and times of distress as well ...so its well said....  Badtameez, Badtehzeeb..Bezubaan...Beshumar Haqeqat tu mere... Haseen Hamdost Humraaz..Humumr..Humsafar tu mere.. Agar Sach Kahu to Zindge tu mere ..!                                                                          Kailash Raina